Don't send any money Don’t send money to anyone you have met online – no matter how genuine they might seem. If you’ve started sending money, stop immediately – you will never have the money repaid. If any amounts are sent back to you, this could be from another victim’s account and you might be acting as a money mule and involved in a crime called money laundering. If you suspect you’ve been scammed If you’ve been the victim of a romance scam, you need to take the following steps straight away. There is a high probability that if the scammer has your details they will sell them online to other scammers, who may target you again for another scam. Change your mobile number. Change your email address/es. Install anti-virus software on all your devices and use it to scan for malware and viruses. Update your passwords. Make sure you have a different password for every account and where possible use two-factor authentication. Report it to ReportCyber to help warn others in the community. Find out more about help available.